It’s time to put an end to the self-sacrificing beliefs and behaviors that’ve fucked with your freedom.

You’ve slayed some serious dragons to get where you are, but now you’re overworked, disconnected from your body, and struggling to put yourself first.

Since life conditioned you to prove your worth (to yourself or others) through being a useful, socially-acceptable perfectionist, you struggle to prioritize your own mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

Mustering up more self-discipline and will power seems like the only way to start prioritizing yourself, but despite your conscious determination to do so, you feel stuck.

Trapped in a cycle of white-knuckling it, you’ve been struggling with:

• A compulsive need to stay busy through pouring yourself into your job, fixing yourself, helping others, or endless projects
• Reprimanding yourself for “personal failures”
• Defaulting to what’s practical and helpful–whether it’s doing chores, answering work emails, or giving out favors left and right–instead of what brings you pleasure
• An abusive inner critic that shames you for investing time, money, and energy in yourself
• Trying to do everything yourself, especially when it’s not your job, and now you feel guilty telling you-know-who it’s time they pick up the slack
• Chronic muscle tension held in your body
• Anxiety over saying “NO” to energy-sucking bullshit, and anxiety over saying “YES” to what your heart longs for
• Feeling bad about indulging yourself–whether it’s a monthly membership in a sensual dance class or a decadent weekend at Rupaul’s Dragcon

It’s Not Your Fault

Your brain and nervous system are doing their best to keep you safe in a world where society, your ancestors, and your caregivers never figured out their own shit.

Despite the generational trauma, programming, and systemic injustices that have left you feeling burnt out, your wise body knows exactly how to reclaim your inherent dignity and wholeness.

Because your brain is ready to be rewired.

Because your nervous system is designed for resiliency.

Because your inner goddess is ready to emerge.

This is What Empowered Looks Like

What would it be like if the tension that once consumed your body packed-up and moved out, like a forgettable ex whose name you can’t even remember?

You feel relaxed, open, and giddy. You enjoy being in your body, and you strut around like a walking orgasm.

How would it feel to stop trying to control everything and instead empower the other 8 billion humans to do their part?

When shit hits the fan and your coworker Gary looks at you to fix it, your newly discovered inner guidance tells you, “Fuck Gary, he can figure it out.” Because you don’t take care of other people’s dumpster fires anymore. 

Imagine being purposeful and committed to your life’s calling–but unapologetically self-indulgent at the same time.

You’re a boss (metaphorically or literally), and it feels amazing to be making a difference in the world. But you also know what brings you pleasure, and you know how to prioritize what feels good. You see yourself as a prized goddess, knowing that you’re worthy of everything your heart desires and longs for. 

What would be possible if everything that used to feel ordinary now feels like a numinous adventure?

You find yourself saying yes, YES, YEESSSS to spontaneous impulses that speak to your soul. Even better–what used to make you uncomfortable, uninspired, or selfish now lights you up. Your self-care routine feels like glitter-dusted ecstasy.

See yourself taking steps towards your wildest dreams, no longer paralyzed by fear or overwhelm. Imagine if it was just easy now.

You’re excited, motivated, and pumped about scoring the big wins of life. You know exactly what steps to take each day, and the results do not lie. You’re showing up as your best Self in your ideal relationships, career, and passion projects.

Imagine yourself immersed in a newfound self-love.

You revel in being a messy human being, because you don’t attribute setbacks as personal failures anymore. Holding yourself in an unconditional positive regard, you know your body is always trying to protect you, even when it holds you back. And now you have the tools to continue your sacred homecoming–a beautiful, lifelong reclamation of your true Self.

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